In this newsletter:
- Principal’s message
- Mr Andrews’ Almanac
- Carramar highlights with Mrs Stockton-Rice
- Parenting tip from Mr Thomas
- Dates for your diary
Principal’s message

As we begin Term 1, it has been a joy to welcome our Secondary students back to campus and to see our community come alive once again. I hope the holiday break offered time for rest and reconnection as we step into the year ahead together.
My theme for 2026, Influencing with Kindness, calls us to reflect on the quiet but powerful ways we shape the lives of our young people each day. Kindness, in our words, our expectations and our presence, remains one of the most enduring influences we can offer, particularly as our students navigate an increasingly complex world.
With this in mind, I am pleased to share details of our Term 1 Parent Series featuring Paris McNeil. This session will explore the recent social media ban and importantly how families can use this moment as a reset, support healthy boundaries, positive habits and have open conversations around technology and online behaviour. Paris brings extensive experience working alongside young people, parents and schools and I trust families will find this session both reassuring and practical. This event will take place in our Carramar Primary Forum on Tuesday, 24 February at 6:45pm. Please book now as places are limited.
Thank you for the care and commitment you show your children each day. I look forward to partnering with you throughout the term ahead.
Take care and God bless,
Donella Beare, Principal
Mr Andrews’ Almanac

It has been a composed and positive beginning to the 2026 school year at St Stephen’s School, Carramar. Our Parent Information Evenings and welcome events from Kindergarten through to Year 12 have been warm, well‑attended and full of encouragement for the year ahead.
On Friday, we formally commissioned our Year 12 students and celebrated our 2025 high achievers. I shared with them that the red tie they received is far more than a uniform item—it symbolises leadership, responsibility and service. Their conduct will be noticed and their example will be followed. For younger students watching, this moment is an invitation to consider the story they wish to write during their years at St Stephen’s School, Carramar and to begin shaping that story now.
Last Tuesday’s Kindy Picnic was an exciting event that I enjoy each year. As I watched our newest students playing, exploring and forming those first precious friendships, I couldn’t help but reflect on the journey these little people begin today – a journey that, for many, will culminate in Year 12. The Class of 2026 includes several graduates from our very first Kindy cohort, a reminder of the extraordinary growth that occurs between those early days of discovery and the confident young adults who now stand as leaders in our community. Some of the friends made at that picnic last week may well be the same ones standing beside them at their own Commissioning in 2039.
As we celebrate 25 years of the Carramar Campus, this milestone invites us to reflect not only on where we have come from, but on the countless staff, students and families who have shaped this community across a quarter of a century. In that spirit, I want to express my deep gratitude to our deputies—Craig Thomas, Sarah Stockton‑Rice, Jennifer Langley, and Isabelle Pilote—for their exceptional leadership during my Long Service Leave last term. Their steady guidance upheld the values that have defined Carramar throughout its 25‑year journey, ensuring our campus continued to flourish in every respect.
My break was restorative and I return energised for what promises to be a meaningful and memorable year—one made even more significant as we honour this 25‑year milestone. Thank you for your partnership as we begin 2026 with optimism, purpose and a strong sense of community. I look forward to celebrating this special year together and continuing to shape the story of Carramar for the next generation.
Bennet Andrews, Head of Campus
Carramar highlights

with Mrs Sarah Stockton-Rice, Deputy Head of Secondary – Teaching and Learning
The new school year has begun with a wonderful sense of community. From milestone ceremonies to memorable celebrations, the first weeks of term have set a positive tone for the months ahead.
One of the standout events was the spectacular School Ball, held at the iconic Fraser’s Kings Park. With sweeping views over Perth city and a beautifully decorated venue, students enjoyed an unforgettable evening of celebration. A special acknowledgment goes to Mrs Stephanie Ransom, whose exceptional organisation ensured a seamless and elegant event. From the music and lighting to the menu and photography, every detail reflected Stephanie’s dedication and creativity. It was a night filled with laughter, dancing and cherished memories.
Our newest Secondary students stepped confidently into their high school journey during Year 7 Orientation Day. There were lots of team-building activities, tours, and opportunities to meet teachers and student leaders. The enthusiasm and curiosity shown by our Year 7s promise a bright year ahead as they settle into new routines, subjects, and friendships.
Year 12 ‘0’ Day gave our senior students the chance to bond as a cohort while preparing for their final year of schooling. This was a time to reconnect after the break, meet their teachers and reinforce the importance of resilience, balance and dedication to the upcoming year. The Class of 2026 has already shown maturity and determination and 0 Day was the perfect springboard into their final year.
The Year 12 Commissioning Ceremony remains one of the most meaningful traditions in our school community. Parents, staff and students gathered to recognise our Year 12s as they begin their final chapter. As we commissioned the year group, they were presented with their Year 12 red tie which they will wear proudly through the year.
We also recognised the top-achieving students of 2025. Our 90s club and top VET achievers returned to school so that we could congratulate them on their wonderful achievements.
Both Year 11 and Year 12 cohorts have launched into the year through their respective retreats, each designed to build character, deepen relationships and encourage personal reflection. Away from the pressures of daily routines, students explored themes such as identity, leadership and wellbeing. These retreats are a crucial part of preparing senior students not only academically but also socially and emotionally for the challenges ahead.
With such vibrant and meaningful events marking the start of Term 1, it’s clear that this school year is off to a fantastic start. The sense of unity, excitement and purpose felt across all year groups signals a year full of opportunity, learning, and growth.
Year 12 Commissioning Ceremony and 90s Club


Parenting tip

with Mr Craig Thomas, Deputy Head of Secondary – Care
When Grunts Are a Language – Talking to teenagers
If you’ve ever been greeted by nothing more than a grunt from your teenager as they shuffle past you to their room, you’re definitely not alone—I’ve had that exact moment more than once. It’s a familiar scene for many parents of adolescents. As children grow into teenagers, conversation can feel less like a flowing exchange and more like trying to tune a radio with fuzzy reception: sometimes you catch a clear signal and sometimes you get static.
Yet those small, seemingly disinterested responses don’t mean your teen doesn’t want to connect. In fact, the desire for closeness with parents remains strong throughout adolescence—they just express it differently. With a few intentional strategies, we can create space where young people feel more willing and safe to talk.
Lead with curiosity, not critique
As Ted Lasso often said as the key role in the self-named tv series – “be curious”. The common question of “How was school today?” will often result in a single word answer or a grunt, as in my case. Try questions that spark thinking such as “what was something interesting that happened today?” or “what are you looking forward to tomorrow?”
Read the room
For many of our teenagers, getting through the school day is a significant mental load and the steps through the front door at home are their first opportunity to let down their guard. Sometimes a grunt really just means “I need a minute”. Pick moments where your child isn’t exhausted, overwhelmed or rushing off to another commitment. Look for green light moments when they linger in the kitchen, start a conversation or sit by you without prompting.
Connection not perfection
Some days your child will open up and then the next you’ll be lucky to get a shrug. That’s the rollercoaster of living with a teenager. What matters most is that as parents we are consistent – we are approachable, calm, interested and non-judgmental. When that foundation is in place, conversations—real, honest ones—become more frequent and more meaningful.
It can be heartbreaking to experience what appears to be a child snubbing us but even when they retreat to their room with a single-syllable greeting, teenagers deeply value their parents’ presence and support. By creating consistent, gentle opportunities for connection, we signal that we are here—not to interrogate or control, but to listen, understand, and walk alongside them.
If you would like to explore this topic further, the following Australian-based resources may be useful:
Raising Children Network – Communicating with Teens: https://raisingchildren.net.au/teens/communicating-relationships
ReachOut Parents – Support for Parents of Teens: https://parents.au.reachout.com/parenting-skills/effective-communication
Raising Teens (Collett Smart): https://www.raisingteenagers.com.au/power-familymeals/
COMMUNITY NOTICES
Dates for your diary
Remember you can always visit the St Stephen’s School calendar for key dates and you can check full details of the 2026 term dates on our website.
Please note the following key dates for Term 1 in the 2026 academic year:
- Monday 9 February – Secondary Photo Day
- Monday 9 February – Year 10 Parent Information Evening
- Tuesday 24 February – Parent Series: Social Media Ban update
- Monday 2 March – Labour Day Public Holiday
- Wednesday 4 March – Year 7 –12 House Swimming Carnival
- Wednesday 11 March – Parent Hot Topics: Strategies to Develop Independence
- Wednesday 11 March – NAPLAN starts
- Wednesday 11 March – Year 10 Immunisations (Meningococcal)
- Tuesday 31 March – St Stephen’s School Worship
- Wednesday 1 April – Year 7 Cross Campus Event
- Thursday 2 April – Easter Assembly
- Thursday 2 April – Term 1 ends





































